It was two in the morning, when I entered our room and GK was still occupied
with one of his papers. It had been a month to our wedding. I was about to snooze,
when he asked me if I would be interested in watching a movie. It was certainly
not one of my insomniac nights. After fighting with my sleep for almost an hour
while talking to my in-laws, I was feeling too drowsy. Even though I was least interested in watching a movie, I said yes.
That is the beauty of being newly-weds, they eagerly oblige each other in starting.
“What type of movie you want to see?” He probed me for my preference.
“Anything that is not heavy on head. Some rom-com
or comedy!” I said smilingly, holding back my yawn.
He surfed through Netflix and played a movie.
I widened my eyes, “Why did you ask for my preference?” I said in a complaining
tone, “That is not a rom-com, I don’t
want to see any of those slow art movies. Well let us watch some nice romantic
flick.”
“Oh! I am sorry. Let me explore and find something else.” He apologized and started a
new search.
“Ah! This one looks awesome, let us watch this.” He exclaimed, and played another
movie.
I looked into his eyes, sharply, intensely with a stern face. And after a
second turned my face to the opposite side and slept. He had selected MI-3, an action packed movie this time.
“What happened? You don’t like this one? Is it not good?” He was asking me. “Are
you upset? Why are you not answering?”
“Let me sleep.” I spoke hiding inside the quilt, “switch off the lights.”
He had heard about abrupt female mood-swings.
That was his idea of romance. Men are certainly from Mars. Within a month I realized I was married to a Ph.D., they have a very different idea of romance!!!
That is a nice anecdote. The following is just a general observation and definitely not directed against your spouse. I want to make that perfectly clear. Smart people spend more time on their achievements.
ReplyDeleteThanks SG. :)
DeleteDidnt understand the context of last line? (My bad)
It is not your mistake. I purposely left the sentence incomplete. It should have been Smart people spend more time on their achievements than on relationships when growing up. (Please forget I ever wrote that. I should not have written that sentence.)
Deletehaha if you say so :)
DeleteInteresting story about the difficulties of adjustments in a relationship.
ReplyDeleteI know Kalpana... However if those adjustments are as trivial, life is funny :D
Deleteha ha! MI3? :P Poor you!
ReplyDeleteI know, I sooo know!!!
DeleteHa ha..!! Interesting! Men are sure from Mars and the sooner we accept, the better it is for us!
ReplyDeleteCheers
Geets
Haha Indeed Geets!!!
DeleteHahaha! MI-3!! I can so relate to this. :D
ReplyDeleteReally hahahaha! I want to know more about it!
Delete:) why does it sound familiar :P
ReplyDeleteNo, say that is not familiar to you! Omg!!!
DeleteEvery guy has a different idea of romance or you can say no romance at all hahaha
ReplyDeleteTotally agree every man has a different idea of romance haha
DeleteNot at all romantic!!!!
ReplyDeleteHaha he would laugh after reading the comments here!!!
DeleteHahahhahahahah...... Can't say more ....
ReplyDelete:P
Deletehahaha what do you think my husband's idea of a romantic date was ... SAW movie marathon. Yes that's right :P
ReplyDeleteA Whimsical Medley
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