Well what if i say both statements are true? confused?
aha! i guess you must be finding me insane and foolish, taking sides of both the thoughts that seem extremely opposite!
Think again! No one is perfect. If you'll say there is an ideal man and/or a woman on this planet, u must be thinking of some UFOs. There is none. and we all know that we all have shortcomings. There is no human mind that has mastered in literature, science, mathematics, finance, emotions, dance, music etc and doesn't have ego, bad habits, rage, negative attitude and treats everyone perfectly. We all have developed one or the other portions of our minds that's why we are not alike. So no one is superior and no one is inferior. I have seen some people telling others, that yeah she/he is successful in his profession and comparing them with others who are not so well off.. Think again! Do you really think the person is superior to you because s/he is successful in her/his profession? How maturely s/he handles her/his personal life, life with friends and relatives or spouse? How much open space s/he provides and allows free flow of thoughts around her/him?
Yes no one is perfect. Now u got it. Everybody develops some or the other portion of their minds and personality. Some of them seem less imperfect than others. That's because may be they know how to suppress their negative or darker side. They have developed the whiter portion of their personality. Such people are really less imperfect. Live a better life on professional and personal front. Respects others views and try not to shoot others' with their prejudice and bias.
Hence there is no perfect partner. I have proved one thought. And the other thought states that there is a perfect partner.
When our imperfections match with the other person's imperfections that are acceptable to us and suits us totally, with no unpleasant vibes, then that person is perfect for us. Its mutual.
People around me who are thinking of getting married due to pressure of outside world or due to the marriage of their own friends and in family, just give it a thought "do u wish to marry at right age or u wish to marry the right person?"
Nice post..
ReplyDeleteI wish to marry the right person! Age is just a social obligation!
for this blog i hv 2 say...i m totally agree with u...its nt abt a perfect partner..or 2 find 'perfectness'..its nt abt inferiority or superiority...its all abt mutual understanding..in today's life for each thing we hv 2 be focussed..calm...committed..nd most imp...' strong hearted'..it is nt abt age ..it is abt right time..gud one shesha..
ReplyDeleteShine: Ditto.. Time doesn't matter.. Just the Age should not be wasted on petty conflicts and on making wrong choice into the right one!
ReplyDeleteAnshuman: Thanks so much for appreciating it! :)
Love/Relationships has always been a complicated subject for me..but 1 thing that i can say for sure is there is no 'perfect someone'.
ReplyDeleteIf you can except each others fault or even better start finding each others imperfections cute, is whats gonna take the relationship forward..
correct me if m wrong..
Abhinav: Yepp, i made this point! when someone's imperfects suits us, i.e. they are not unpleasant, they are perfect for us.. U are absolutely right.. small imperfections in life make it more exciting and adventurous. :)
ReplyDeleteyaa...hope you fine ur 'imperfect' special one soon dee..
ReplyDeleteI love your blog, I have seen you dabbling in to many things, faintly remember smthing about vedas or may be astrology on this very blog, well it is not just for the graphics, or look, or visual feel of the blog, i like your blog for content and variety, thats very much like a piscean, I am a piscean too, ( sun in pisces, moon in capricorn, and ascendant aries), astrology does help in match making, pisceans however go very well with each other.....
ReplyDeletebut both of them tend to be lazy, so you c zindagi ki gaadi" takes jittery way, well apart from society, piscean-piscean help find the higher things that they tend to vie for all their live, they provide each other grounding and deep understanding.......ahhhh......
HTH....apart from sunsing, other things also, say in a ratio 80:20....
n i will wait for the right person.......
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ReplyDeleteMr Anonymous Thanks for praising the efforts. Astrology helps in match making in Indian scenario. Although people around me believe in it. I believe more in instincts. I have a great interests in Astrology, but my actions and life is certainly not governed by it totally. Yeah its still influenced by it. I feel its more about the click .
ReplyDeleteAbout pisces getting well along with pisces, I would say when there is an agreement of two people in all the things there is no mental or emotional progress. Anyone can gel well with anyone. This phrase of urs "zindagi ki Gadi" seems coming out of somebody familiar anyway.
Prit : Well u can do the honours in your blog by specially mentioning non straight population for instant publicity!. I have made a generalized statement here. I guess everyone can relate to it, and there is no such NEED!!!
ReplyDeleteIf u have read the written words carefully, I have mentioned already that there is no right partner and when we can adjust well with other's shortcomings, s/he becomes perfect for us! And as everyone has seen, people wait for perfect partner and when somebody worth comes in front of them, they don't mind making unplanned adjustments. So its about the right match that suits u best.
As far as people marrying for dowry or bride price are concerned, this post is strictly for the ones who are contemplating on this very "topic" and who are getting under the pressure of age factor due to social obligations. Others who marry for money, or progeny is their personal affair. Whatever suits them and their family! Priorities for every human being are different.
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ReplyDeleteDear Shesha
ReplyDeletevery thoughtful post!!!
Lovey, i pray that you find your mr.right soon....
ur gudda di
ThanQ gudda di :) Blessings always make ur life more beautiful specially coming from elder sister cum friend :)
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